Written by Chris Titus
So, the topic you are all waiting for - women.
Let me start by saying that things are quite different here than in Boston. Maybe it is due to my Greek genes that I find the women here to be incredibly beautiful. In fact, I have seen the most beautiful women in my life during the short time I’ve been in Athens. And, it seems like they are in the majority. On an average day while strolling to school, I will encounter at least six women who look like models.
Competition is fierce among women in Athens. However, I’m not sure what exactly they are competing over. For example, if a woman enters the metro wearing something rather eye-catching, it is difficult to miss the other women glaring at her. However, if a good looking man enters the train, which more noticeable because it happens less often, not one of these women would look up. It’s as if they don’t care about men.
Something else I’ve noticed is that most Greek women walk around with an upset and pouty look on their face. Greeks in general have a very stressed out look. And, the more beautiful the woman, the slower she walks. Maybe it’s a lack of energy because they don’t eat. How else do they stay so thin? One way in which Athens reminds me of Boston is that most women on the street avoid making eye contact at all costs. However, they are usually quite friendly once you engage them. Here is a phrase to help you break the ice - “milAs agglika” (do you speak English?).
Another difference is seen after you engage a woman in conversation. They seem to be more aggressive than women back home. In one week, three women asked me for my number. And, on a fourth occasion, the woman asked if it would be alright to give me hers. After telling my cousin about it, she laughed and said, “it means nothing here.” She was right. Athenian women here love to hand out and collect numbers. However, nobody dates outside of their circle of friends and family. In this way, Athens reminds me of the South.
Women who had seemed very interested were just playing around. There seems to be a genuine lack of sincerity and trust between men and women in Athens. Luckily, none of the women in my class act this way. They are all very nice people. Maybe it’s because we are all teachers.
My friend Eleni has a unique perspective on the evolution of Athenian women. Having spent eight years in London, she remarked on the dramatic changes in the women’s physical appearances in as short of a period as three years. Around the time she left for London, Greek women had been pleasantly plump. Starting five years ago, there was a strong influx of Russians into Athens. According to her, the new Russian women were very thin and attractive. Greek men, attracted to these newcomers, stopped pursuing the heavier Greeks. Soon it was time for the Greek women to play catch up. Competition is a good thing.
Around the same time, Greece adopted the Euro. Economic uncertainty ensued as many Greeks did not know how to adjust to the new currency. It is very common here to see very young and attractive women with older, wealthy men. I’ve also been repeatedly told that the infidelity rate is quite high, possibly adding to the indifference between the sexes.
I have a feeling it will be difficult to find true love in such a complex social structure.
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